4 Weddings and No Funeral 😜 (sorry mum)
- Rach B
- May 5, 2021
- 2 min read
Happy Hump Day guys. Just a quick one...
If anyone has been following my story or knows me, you’ll know that me and David have had 3 weddings cancelled due to covid in the past 12 months (yes in the same year I got diagnosed with cancer, it’s been a truly shit year! 😂). However, on the 25th April we finally said ‘I do’ in the beautiful Lake District with our families. I was worried people might think we are only doing this because I have been diagnosed and that we were in a rush to get things ‘ticked off’, but it’s been a long time coming and we honestly had the most perfect day. I forgot all about the pain I’ve been in with my mouth and my back and I was just floating on cloud 9 all day and actually forgot for most of the day that I actually have cancer (which is crazy!!). I feel well and truly the luckiest girl in the world. I can’t thank my husband (😏) and our families enough for helping us make the most precious memories that I will keep with me forever.
It’s all about making memories isn’t it. I’ve heard of so many people getting so stressed on their wedding day and spending hours getting pictures done away from everyone. This is something me and David really didn’t want to do (don’t get me wrong, we got some gorgeous pictures that we will keep with us forever) but we wanted to spend as much time with our families as possible and just live in the moment, which we definitely did (until 5am 😰🥂, I’m still recovering now haha).
Being the massive control freak I am, I really struggle to relax and just take everything in, but I’m slowly realising that if you try and control everything, you enjoy nothing. Sometimes you just need to slow down, breathe, let go and just live in the moment. A very wise man once said to me (my dad 😂)... ‘Worrying is a total waste of time, it doesn’t change anything. All it does it steal your joy and keeps you very busy doing nothing’, and I couldn’t relate to this anymore right now.
Enjoy life guys, as shit as it can be, it can also be very beautiful and shouldn’t be taken for granted.
Love Mrs Coram x
Wow u really do look truly beautiful on your wedding day glad you had the best day where in the Kames did you get married I visited family near there went up there the other day to ambleside your daughter is beautiful what a cutie she is hope u had a lovely Christmas this year you are very brave chin up you are very strong u can do this take every day as it comes enjoy the little things in life that's what it's all about like u say in your blog love it take care happy new year to you and your lovely little family lv jess from liscsrd wirral xxxx
Couldn’t agree more I feel this year has made us all reflect. So thrilled your day was full of magic you look so beautiful With your gorgeous little girl and Hubbie. Sending you buckets of love xxx💕
Written perfectly Rachael ,i could see how happy you both looked and you had the most important people with you ,you're family are such a suupprt to you i can see .Love reading your story hun ,emotional but amusing as well,keep them coming and once again my congratulations to you both 💖💖💖